Building a Relationship
Every bachelor and bachelorette in Stardew Valley has their own unique preferences and dislikes in terms of gifts. The key to building a strong relationship with a potential spouse is to give them gifts that they love. You can find out what a person’s favorite gifts are by talking to them, visiting their house, or checking the Stardew Valley wiki. Some of the most popular gifts include:
| Gift | Recipients |
|---|---|
| Coffee | Everyone except Clint, Evelyn, and George |
| Chocolate Cake | Abigail, Gus, Harvey, Jas, Kent, Maru, Pam, Penny, Sebastian, and Vincent |
| Jelly | Alex, Elliott, Leah, Sam, and Willy |
| Flowers | Emily, Haley, Penny, and Maru |
| Wine | Emily, Harvey, Lewis, Maru, Pam, and Penny |
In addition to giving gifts, you can also build relationships by talking to people and completing quests for them. The more you interact with a person, the more they will like you. You can check your relationship status with someone by clicking on their name in the social tab of your menu. As your relationship level increases, you will unlock new dialogue options and eventually be able to marry the person.
Proposing Marriage
Once you’ve built up a close relationship with a potential spouse, you’ll need to purchase a Mermaid’s Pendant from the Old Mariner north of the Beach. The Pendant costs 5,000 gold, and you can only buy it one time per save file. The pendant alone isn’t enough to propose, though. You’ll also need to collect a Bouquet, which can be crafted with any type of flower at Pierre’s General Store.
With both the Pendant and the Bouquet in your inventory, approach your chosen partner on a day when they’re not working. If they accept your proposal, they’ll move into your house the following day. After that, you can furnish your home with a double bed to start upgrading your relationship even further.
You can review some additional information in the table below:
| Item | Cost | Where to Obtain |
|---|---|---|
| Mermaid’s Pendant | 5,000 gold | Old Mariner north of the Beach |
| Bouquet | Any type of flower | Crafted at Pierre’s General Store |
Wedding Ceremony
The wedding ceremony in Stardew Valley is a beautiful and romantic event. It takes place in the town square, and all of your friends and family will be there to celebrate. The ceremony is officiated by Mayor Lewis, and he will ask you and your partner to exchange vows. After you have exchanged vows, you will be pronounced husband and wife. You will then be able to kiss your new spouse and celebrate your marriage with your friends and family.
Invitations
You can invite up to 10 guests to your wedding. To invite a guest, you will need to give them a wedding invitation. You can purchase wedding invitations from Pierre’s General Store. Once you have purchased a wedding invitation, you will need to write the guest’s name on it. You can then give the invitation to the guest in person or mail it to them.
Wedding Attire
You and your partner can choose to wear any outfit you want to your wedding. However, there are some traditional wedding outfits that you may want to consider. For example, the bride may want to wear a white dress, and the groom may want to wear a tuxedo. You can also choose to have your wedding party wear matching outfits.
Wedding Cake
The wedding cake is an important part of any wedding. You can choose to have any type of cake you want, but some popular choices include chocolate cake, vanilla cake, and fruitcake. You can also choose to have your cake decorated with flowers, frosting, or other decorations.
Wedding Reception
The wedding reception is a party that is held after the wedding ceremony. You can choose to have your reception at any location you want, such as a restaurant, a park, or your own home. At the reception, you and your guests can eat, drink, and dance. You can also have a live band or DJ play music at your reception.
Honeymoon
After your wedding, you can go on a honeymoon to celebrate your marriage. There are many different places you can go on your honeymoon, such as a tropical island, a European city, or a national park. You can also choose to stay in a hotel, a bed and breakfast, or a camp ground.
After the Wedding
1. Your Spouse’s Room
Each spouse has their own room in your house, which is where they will sleep and spend most of their time. Their room will be decorated according to their personality and interests, and you can often find them there reading, writing, or playing games. You can also interact with them in their room to get a sense of their daily routine and likes/dislikes.
2. Spouse’s Schedule
Your spouse will have their regular daily schedule, which is based on their personality and profession. They will wake up at a certain time each day and go about their activities, such as working on the farm, going to town, or socializing with other villagers.
You can check your spouse’s schedule by talking to them or by looking at the calendar in your house.
3. Gifts and Affection
You can give your spouse gifts to increase your affection with them. The best gifts are those that they like or have positive feelings towards. You can also increase your affection by talking to your spouse, spending time with them, and completing tasks for them.
4. Children
You can have children with your spouse once you reach a certain level of affection and have upgraded your house. To have a child, you will need to build a crib in your house and then interact with your spouse while standing next to the crib. Your spouse will then become pregnant and give birth to a child after a few days.
5. Divorce
If you are unhappy with your marriage or no longer wish to be married, you can file for divorce. To file for divorce, you will need to go to the Mayor’s office and pay a fee. Your spouse will then move out of your house and you will be free to marry someone else.
6. Fun Facts
Here are some fun facts about marriage in Stardew Valley:
| Fun Fact |
|---|
| Your spouse will occasionally give you gifts. |
| Your spouse can help you with tasks around the farm. |
| Your spouse will sometimes cook dinner for you. |
| You can dance with your spouse at the Flower Dance festival. |
| Your spouse will have a unique wedding anniversary dialogue each year. |
Roommate Vs. Spouse
In Stardew Valley, you can choose between having a roommate or a spouse. Here’s a detailed comparison of the two options:
**Roommate**
- Can share a house with you but will not marry you or have children with you.
- Will pay you a small amount of rent each week.
- Can be helpful around the farm, such as watering crops or feeding animals.
**Spouse**
- Can marry you and have children with you.
- Will share income with you and contribute to household tasks.
- Can offer you special perks, such as cooking meals or providing buffs.
**Which is right for you?**
| Roommate | Spouse | |
|---|---|---|
| Marriage | No | Yes |
| Children | No | Yes |
| Shared Income | Yes | Yes |
| Household Tasks | Helpful | Shares |
| Special Perks | None | Yes |
| Romance | No | Yes |
| Best for | Players who want a casual farm experience | Players who want a deep romantic connection |
Benefits of Marriage
Increased Stamina
A good night’s sleep results in a full stamina bar the next day, allowing you to work harder for longer.
Better Gifts
Spouse’s can give useful gifts that can be hard to come by, such as rare items or cooked meals.
Shared Income
Your spouse will contribute half of their daily earnings to the household, providing a financial boost.
Cooking Bonuses
Married couples can cook meals together, resulting in quality bonuses that provide extra energy and health benefits.
House Upgrades
Some house upgrades, such as the cellar and the nursery, become available only after marriage.
Children
Married couples can have children, who can help with chores and provide companionship.
Emotional Support
Your spouse will provide emotional support and companionship, reducing loneliness and improving mental well-being.
Unique Items and Rewards
Certain unique items and rewards, such as the Stardrop, become accessible only after marrying a specific character.
Divorce and Remarriage
If you rush into marriage and later regret it, you can divorce your spouse in Stardew Valley. Here’s a step-by-step guide:
1. Visit the Mayor’s Manor and talk to Lewis.
2. Pay a fee of 5,000g.
3. Confirm your decision to divorce.
What Happens After Divorce
After you divorce, your spouse will move out of your house and become a villager again. You will lose all of the friendship points you had with them. Any children you had with them will remain in your care.
Remarriage
Once you are divorced, you can remarry anyone else in Stardew Valley. The process is the same as getting married for the first time. However, there are a few things to keep in mind:
- You can only marry one person at a time.
- You will have to pay a fee of 5,000g to remarry.
- Your new spouse will not inherit any of the property or money you had with your previous spouse.
Children After Divorce and Remarriage
If you have children with your previous spouse, they will remain in your care after you divorce. You can still visit them and give them gifts, but they will no longer live with you. If you remarry, your new spouse will not adopt your children.
Tips for Divorce and Remarriage
Here are a few tips for making divorce and remarriage in Stardew Valley as smooth as possible:
- Try to work things out with your spouse before you decide to divorce.
- Make sure you are financially prepared to divorce.
- Don’t rush into remarrying.
- Consider the impact of divorce and remarriage on your children.
How To Marry In Stardew Valley
To marry in Stardew Valley, you must first meet a villager, build a friendship with them, and give them a Bouquet. Once you have a 10-heart friendship with the villager, you can propose to them by giving them a Mermaid’s Pendant. If the villager accepts your proposal, your wedding ceremony will take place the next day at Mayor Lewis’s house.
There are 12 eligible marriage candidates in Stardew Valley: six male and six female. You can only marry one villager per save file.
People Also Ask About How To Marry In Stardew Valley
Can you marry more than one person in Stardew Valley?
No, you can only marry one person per save file.
How do you get a Bouquet in Stardew Valley?
You can buy a Bouquet from Pierre’s General Store for 200g.
How do you propose to someone in Stardew Valley?
Once you have a 10-heart friendship with the villager you want to marry, you can propose to them by giving them a Mermaid’s Pendant. You can buy a Mermaid’s Pendant from the Old Mariner for 500g.
